The Proust Questionnaire is believed to reveal an individual’s true nature. We have asked Incite authors 17 questions inspired by the questionnaire in an attempt to uncover who they are...
What is your idea of perfect happiness?
“Perfect happiness?” Shoes that fit, happy children, being in love. On the other hand, creatively speaking, one must never be “perfectly happy” …with anything. But knowing when to move on is good.
What does your ideal day look like?
I read somewhere that Picasso’s days were like this: sleeping till noon, spending the day at the beach with his kids, having a late supper, and working all night. And I thought, “I could get into that.” It’s not practical right now, but my family and I do spend a lot of time at the beach in the summer.
What is your greatest extravagance?
I don’t have many. Quitting drinking and smoking saves lots of money. My one extravagance: my husband and I will nurse an expensive soda water or cup of coffee at the Bengal Lounge in the Empress Hotel, because they have a jazz band you can listen to with no cover charge on weekends.
What possession would you be heartbroken if you lost?
I try to be Buddhist about things: I’ve started over with the shirt on my back more than a few times. There’s this proverb I heard, “In the course of a long life, a man must be prepared to lose his luggage many times.” In a way, there’s a liberating side to losing things.
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
I’m really not very sympathetic. I want to fix everything, and if it’s beyond repair I will pretty quickly leave it by the side of the road. I’ve also been told I think too much, going over a thing that happened for days from different angles.
What childhood fear has followed you into adulthood?
That someone/something will steal the people I love.
Do you take comfort in darkness or light?
I take comfort in my family, the ocean, poetry, music. I think that it’s from darkness that light comes, or, as Camus said, our majesty comes from the confrontation of our own mortality. Like a man with a knife fighting his way out of a barrage of machine guns -- that which we cannot conquer, but never giving up.
Do you remember your dreams?
These days I have a recurrent dream set in a tenement house. I’m always trying to find my room in the building, or make money to pay my rent.
How do you collect snippets of observations and ideas that come to you unexpectedly?
In a little book with a spiral binder. If I have no paper, I write on the back of my hand. If I have no pen, I repeat a key word or phrase, which is usually is enough until I get to a pen and paper.
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